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The Best Form of Donation
What is donation? To give people what they need is donation, not what you feel like giving. If you donate clothes to somebody who already has many clothes, it is of no use. Instead, give clothes to people who need clothes. Similarly, giving food to somebo ... -
How To Develop Virtues
You Are the Source of All Virtues As human beings, we have tremendous qualities and virtues. You don’t have to look for virtues outside – you are the source of all virtues. But in the stress of day-to-day life, these virtues get hidden. A seed has a membr ... -
Why It Is Important To Be Generous
"Give in such a way that the other does not even feel they have taken. This is generosity, and this is beauty." Click To Tweet Two Internal Tendencies Taking from another Giving to another Which value system we are imbibing in our children is worth noting. ... -
4 Attitudes That Are Good To Have
There are four kinds of attitudes that are good to have in life. 1 Friendliness Being friendly, and more so with people who are happy. If you are not friendly with happy people, you will be jealous. This is because you think that your enemy is happy, and ... -
Here is Why You Must Not Judge or Blame
Recognize Your Tendency to Judge and Blame We all have this tendency – we judge ourselves too much, or we judge others. Either you start blaming yourself, or you blame somebody else. Either you find you are not right, or you find that someone else is not ... -
How to forgive?
When you find a person to be a culprit, try to see them from a broader angle. The person is a culprit because he is a victim himself or herself. He or she doesn't have knowledge, they are ignorant and they have pain in their own heart. They are a victim an ... -
Please speak a little more on forgiveness. I find it very hard. I wish I could learn a way to forgive.
Why do you want to learn? Why do you want to take all the trouble? Hold on to your grudge, and when you cannot then you have already forgiven (the person).It’s not easy to hold on to a grudge against somebody. If you are wise you’d say, 'I am tired of this ... -
How do I forgive those who have abused me emotionally and physically. I still have to deal with these people daily? Sometimes I feel like killing them but even that doesn’t seem like enough punishment for them.
I want you to forget about those abusers. I want to ask you, haven’t you caused some pain or hurt to someone else knowingly or unknowingly, willingly or unwillingly? You have. If others hold on to it for a lifetime and go after you, how would you like ... -
How is it possible to forgive and forget, sometimes it becomes impossible for me.
Know that you have the power to do it and just do it. Open your mind to the vastness of this universe. Wake up and see that seven billion people are on this planet, everyday many are being burnt, everyday many are dying. Whatever big thing you are hanging ... -
I say that I have forgiven, but when I am meditating, the past comes back and I feel that I am losing out on my experience. Forgiving is easier said than done. Please advise me on how to forgive and be free because I am still hurting.
Forgiving is not only difficult, it is almost impossible as long as you think that someone is a culprit. But if you see that person, whomsoever you want to forgive, not as a culprit but as a victim of situations, a victim of ignorance, or just a postman to ...